
You may also seek professional help for a third-person perspective on the issues. And if you are keen to stick together, work towards getting rid of the hate from your love-hate relationship. It is important to set healthy boundaries and give each other space.
Next, we give you a few tips on how to do that. When you identify the cause of all those intense but wavering emotions, you can work on fixing them before the relationship moves towards a breakup.
Try to perfect others but not oneself: When you always find faults and want your partner to be perfect, but ignore your own flaws, you inevitably create a love-hate situation.
If you encounter these issues and ignore them instead of addressing them, they could build up hate and resentment in you.
Cheating, jealousy, and insecurity: Such negative traits also push a relationship into a love-hate cycle. If both you and your partner are always fighting over who holds the reins of the relationship, then there is only war and no love. Control issues: Another downside of having a strong personality is the urge to control. Unbent personalities: If both the partners have strong personal opinions and views and are not ready to let go of them or even bend them a little for the sake of being together, then the love can turn into hatred in no time.
Compatibility issues: Things can also go wrong when your views and expectations of love, life, goals, and dreams do not match. And when your partner tries to point it out, you may take it negatively. If you and your partner have giant egos that are overshadowing your love, then you will have difficulty accepting your faults. This situation is a result of many small things, and here are some of them. You and your partner did not get into this vortex of love and hate overnight.